As a husband it is a very unique experience having your wife be pregnant. I could write many blog posts about the experience ranging from my 10 pound weight gain to the experience of literally having less room, well, everywhere. However, this post is about the connection that Mother and son experience in utero. I've watched as Jenn has grown to epic proportions (of cuteness) and am constantly amazed at what I now truly see as the miracle of life. I can't help sometimes feel a little jealous. I get to feel him kick a few times a day, but she gets to feel everything: his turns, jabs, hiccups, rolls and slides. Don't get me wrong, I am keenly aware that my wife is the far better choice for this role, but you get my point.
This brings us to today. We were blessed this last week with the opportunity to get whats called a 4-D ultrasound. For those of you wondering what that means, it means that we would be able to see our child in the x,y, z and t :) Put more simply, in three dimensions and in live motion. I'd seen samples online and was prepared, or so I thought, to have Jenn show me the pictures of our son. Truly, I was not prepared. I imagine second to standing in the delivery room and welcoming him to the world in 50 days plus or minus, seeing these pictures was life changing.
So without further ado, here is our son, David.
Isn't he amazing!! As Jenn so humbly puts it, "The cutest baby in the world!!" :)
I wasn't sure how I would feel as a father having the chance to see these pictures, but it did something I didn't expect. It allowed me to connect with him in an extremely visceral way. So yes, I don't feel all the movements, but now I can picture him. I can see that he got his mom's cheeks, a combination of our noses, and my lips. I can spend these final weeks of the pregnancy, picturing him as I pray for him, and as I feel him have the hiccups almost every night.
He is amazing, and I can't wait to meet him. I thought I would close with our personal favorite. Here is a picture of our son smiling. If you look at the left of the screen you can see a wall that represents Jenn. I can't help but think that he is smiling because he is cuddling with his Mom. Well David, she has smiled every day for the last 8 months thinking of you. David, we love you and we'll meet you soon!
2 comments:
I have often felt bad for dad's because it's true, the don't get to connect with the baby in ways that mommies do. But I am so glad you got to connect with little David BEFORE he entered the world. What an incredible little life coming your way. Can't wait to hear all about the adventures in parenting.
Wow. I had no idea that it was realtime picture. Now that would be amazing to see. The pictures are awesome, and really bring home that there's a little person inside there just waiting to get out. Wish we'd had this technology back before you were born. All we got was a grainy black and white image that we thought showed a picture of your face :-)
Us dads may not get to carry our children, but we certainly are a part of the journey once they are born. And what a wonderful journey it is. It will be the most enjoyable, rewarding, and memorable experience of your life.
I'm looking forward to meeting David very soon. And yes, I may be biased as well, but he's one cute baby :-)
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